asking a lady out on a date or been good friends

Hey there, need some advis, i,ve none this lady 4 bout a year, thr meeting some of my friends, let,s call her X bye the way, she,s not from England but speaks bout 60 of it.

She,s a nice a outing going person, always having a laugh. the problem is that i like to ask her out like on a date, but, i,am kind of shy person, berlive it or not,

she,s funny n up 4 a laugh.

Can u give me any addvis on this

thanks

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Well, I believe it`s easy. If someone advise you to stay a friend of her or something like that then the person is shy too or just sickener. And if someone advise you to ask her for a date then as Russians say 'Pizdit ne meshki vorochit' (~ it`s easy to say but hard to do). Anyway I let myself to give you Henri Ford`s advice "Whether you think you can or can`t either way you are right"

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Don't.

Have a think what a first date is. Two people get together to see if they like each other enough to go on a second date. Why would you want to do that? You know you like each other as you have been friends. But does she like you in that way? There's another question. How do you find out? You try to kiss her. If she lets you kiss her then you know the answer.

If she doesn't let you kiss her don't get pissed off or lose your cool just carry on talking or doing what you were doing, you can always try again later. But what you have done is plant a seed that there may be more. If she only likes you just as a friend then you need to build up the sexual attraction and if that isn't happening now you need to change how she sees you.

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Oooh no, don't like the sound of that advice!

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Ooof.

You dont just try to kiss a friend, that would freak her out!

Just ask her out on your own sometime, like an afternoon shopping or to see a film, and maybe say you enjoy her company and see how she reacts. Women are prettty astute, she will figure out what you mean.

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yeh for sure DO NOT try and kiss her

bad bad bad - go with wat mistaken plane said

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ditto

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Stop being old fashioned. Everyone knows the best way to make your intentions known is just to go right in for a kiss before making any suggestion that it's on the cards.

60% of the time it works every time.

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It's terrible advice!

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yes, it is terrible advice!

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Sorry guys, I probably should have added a ;) to that post :)

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