Sheraz Yousaf: The Pursuit of Manly-ness

What if you were taught how to be a man? But you thought that was wrong. So you un-taught yourself, and then learned again from someone else, and they were wrong, so you read a book about it, and then looked on the internet, and then went to something where there were other men who told you how to be a man.
What kind of man would you be?