ORIGINAL: Daisy2002
ORIGINAL: jacqs
ORIGINAL: Daisy2002
Afternoon guys :wave:
I'm here too :)
Hi there hope all went well today hun xx
Hey Jacqs.
It went ok.
He admitted there were 'failings' by various people.
I spent most of my time explaining what happened in a&e & whilst i was on the ward.
Just as we started to talk about future pregnancies he stopped me & said can we do this another time. We had been talking for 40mins & others were waiting outside... we were in the epu.
He wants me to come back & see him for another chat & a coffee.
He didn't have my notes but he thinks thats due to the internal investigation thats already started. He said there was a big 'ho ha' about my case in the hospital at the moment. Someone has made a complaint against the a&e doctor, it wasn't me so not sure who's done that. I myself will be doing a complaint too.
So i shall be seeing him maybe next week, he's going to email me a time & date.
He didn't seem to think he had done anything wrong but seems to think the chain of problems so to speak started after he saw me.... where as i think differently.
I don't really have any answers as yet which is frustrating.
Hey Kiddo,
No surprise there, make notes of all they say to you! Follow the trusts complaint procedure to the letter. Attend appointments with someone to take notes. Also be prepared for it to take time but don't give up.. Its an all to familiar story I am afriad, if people like you do not make a stand then things will never change. Remember to take time out for yourself tho as you will need it to work thro such an emotional situation.
take care and let me know if I can help.
:thumbsup:
Posted: 2010-01-07 10:31:45